Choosing a natural burial groundIt is hugely important that the final resting place for someone you love - or indeed for you yourself - is right for you and for your family. We strongly recommend going to visit any natural burial ground that you are thinking of choosing in order that you see for yourself exactly what it looks and feels like, to meet the people who run it and to ask all of the questions you might have about the future of the land.
Talk it through beforehandMaking any decision after a bereavement is far harder than if thoughts and plans are made beforehand, when shock, grief and the pressure of time are not such an issue, so we feel that, wherever possible, talking to your family and together exploring the options available to you is essential before a death takes place. By telling those close to you what you want, your family and friends will find it easier to ensure you have the final resting place you would want. If you are looking for a natural burial ground near to you then please check our list of sites in the UK or call our Helpline for advice.
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Longholt Wood Natural Burial Ground
Think about what matters to youThere are basically two types of natural burial grounds; truly natural, nature reserve grounds, where non-embalming is a requirement and coffins have to be biodegradable. There are also those where a tree is planted but no other environmentally friendly rules apply. Sites may be mown wild flower meadows, field sites where new woodland is being established, existing woodland or more manicured parkland settings. As the natural burial ground movement is growing, so too is the range of management styles, permitted memorialisation and planting policies. Many local authorities are now setting aside parts of municipal cemeteries as 'green' or 'woodland' burial areas, providing valuable local choice. It is important to be aware that most of these sites are approached through the conventional cemetery area, which aesthetically may not be what some families want.
Consider your prioritiesBefore choosing a natural burial ground it is essential to decide what the desired priorities are for you and /or the person who will be buried there. For example, you may specifically wish for a tree to be planted on the grave, which may not be something offered by the burial ground closest to you. Ask the NDCIf you want information about natural burial grounds in your area, call or email us at the Natural Death Centre.
Talk to the burial ground operatorClear communication with the burial site owner or manager is very important to enable you to have total understanding of how the site is managed and maintained, both now and in the future. For example, some families organising a winter time funeral may not appreciate that a wildflower meadow might only be cut once a year - this can come as an unwelcome shock in July when the growth is at a peak. Establishing a relationship with the manager of your chosen site can provide you with valuable information that a funeral director alone may not be able to offer. Visit before the funeralWe strongly recommend that wherever possible you visit the burial ground before the funeral. It is important to get the feel of a place which will be a special one for family and friends of the deceased in years to come. It may also be possible to choose the exact location of the grave.
Natural Burial FlowersPlease check with the burial site about their own regulations over plastic wrapping and non-native species before purchasing cut flowers or plants. If you are having trouble finding an online florist for a natual burial, we can recommend: Flowers from the FarmFlowers from the Farm is an organisation linking flower farmers around the UK and there is a search function on the website to allow people to find the farm that is most local to them who offers funeral flowers. This would mean that the flowers are locally grown, seasonal and biodegradable as required by natural burial sites
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